SEX AND LOVE: THE UGLY TRUTH

Most people confuse the two

Love, the most abused word in the dictionary. Many use it to exploit unsuspecting friends and family. Others use it to gain undue  advantages over others.
However, another word, that is currently the motivating factor for men especially, who deceive women is sex. Many women are so naive they cannot differentiate between sex and love and hence allow sweet talkers to deceive them.

A man can travel for eight hours just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her. Sex makes men act as if they are in love. The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love. Sex is not an act of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that
comes from sex dies in minutes.

It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.
Sex drives men to do what seems like the
impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary.

People can abandon their gold mines and dig their grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for
fun and that is all. Students are now living
together like husbands and wives, and our
society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school? Many of them ends up differently because the foundation was never built on love.

True love isn't always centred around sex but on trust and honest relationship

This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.
Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship who shows her some signs of money or affection would invariably take her to bed.

The sad truth is that almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today are contributing constructively to the world they live in? Many have misplaced their destiny and future on the alter of cheap affection and lust. These frustration and aggressions are more often than not channelled towards the society.

Many men have allowed the pleasures they stand to benefit for some minutes ruin their life and future. Men, never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive. Think twice before run after lady.
My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, always ensure you double check your decisions. A man who loves you will wait for you. A man who rushes you into premarital sex usually have an ulterior motive. Think twice! Make choices that will ensure a brighter future, and its start today! Love is not just about sex, emotions and poetry. It should be more about trust, respect and loyalty.